Been sat here thinking about a lot of things recently.
If someone had to write about your life as someone they have loved and lost, could they?? Could they write about YOUR life from start to finish???????? If not then why don't we ease their pressure to get every attention to detail 100% spot on. Why not discuss and write about your life from the beginning till the present day. At least or best, all you've encountered and endured, good or bad. It's your life you own it.
I most certainly don't, nor do I stand here as judge and jury. Exactly the opposite.
On the one day the people you've left behind are doing their upmost hardest in trying to do the best they can do for you as their Mum, Dad, Wife, Husband, Girlfriend, Boyfriend,, Fiance, Brother, Sister or their Daughter or son. Why not ease their pain??? Through no fault of your own, I thought why don't people let me help them, Why don't I help the people they're leaving behind planning what they want to be your best moment in your history ever.
Who better to have the best input into writing your Epitaph or Eulogy than YOU yourself. Written @ First Hand. Experiences as they were without question? Events as they unfolded in utter reality?? The sense of your enjoyment of the event, encountered in the exact moment as it actually was???
As my motto "It's your day so have it your way"